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Why Knigge - why etiquette?

Knigge and etiquette are not just formal rules, but an expression of our inner attitude and our respect for others. They should serve people, not the other way around. The rules of etiquette are pointless if they are followed for their own sake. Instead, they should be a means of treating each other politely and respectfully from an appreciative attitude.

Adolph Freiherr Knigge emphasized that etiquette rules do not exist as an end in themselves, but serve to promote positive relationships. Long-term successful teamwork is based on mutual respect and appreciation. It is not just about knowing the rules, but also combining them with an inner attitude of openness and appreciation. Only in this way can etiquette become a valuable tool for creating a positive atmosphere.

Respectful cooperation starts with questions:

• How does my counterpart behave?

• What can I find out about country- or region-specific characteristics?

• Do I have a positive attitude towards my counterpart? How can I encourage this?

• Do I feel comfortable? What can I do to increase my well-being?

• Does my counterpart feel comfortable? How can I help to make everyone feel comfortable?

These questions help us to reflect on our behavior and make conscious decisions that lead to respectful interaction. Even simple gestures in everyday life, such as offering a coffee, can say a lot about our attitude. They are not only acts of politeness, but also show appreciation for the skills and expertise of others.

A practical example is dealing with craftsman. Although they usually have their own food with them, offering them a drink or snack shows appreciation for their work and expertise. This simple gesture can overcome social barriers and create an atmosphere of respect. Such acts put people at the center of the interaction and not just the economic transaction.

Awareness of our own attitude and its influence on our interactions is crucial. The social exchange that arises from friendly gestures can break down prejudices and broaden horizons. By reflecting on our actions and their motivations, we promote a culture of appreciation and mutual respect.

Knigge and the art of social interaction

The art of social interaction consists of finding the right tone in every situation and shaping relationships on an appreciative basis. This also includes questioning your own position and being open to the perspectives of others. Etiquette can help us to facilitate social interactions and promote harmonious coexistence.

It is important to realize that etiquette rules are not rigid laws, but flexible guidelines that can be adapted to the situation at hand. In a globalized world where cultural differences are increasingly present, a sound knowledge of etiquette can help to avoid misunderstandings and strengthen intercultural relationships.

Etiquette does not require us to pretend, but to present our authentic selves in a way that is respectful and appreciative of others. Etiquette thus becomes a tool that helps us to successfully navigate the diversity of human interactions.

Conclusion: The balance between rules and respect

The application of Knigge and etiquette is about striking a balance between formal rules and genuine appreciation. We should always ask ourselves how we can promote positive relationships through our behavior. This requires not only knowledge of social norms, but also a willingness to reflect and question ourselves.

By focusing on an appreciative attitude and using etiquette as a tool, we can create a work culture based on respect and openness. This attitude not only promotes personal well-being, but also strengthens teamwork and the quality of interpersonal relationships.

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